May 2025 Blog Prompts

Jul. 26th, 2025 08:11 pm
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1. Orange juice or apple juice? Actually, I prefer cranberry juice to either of those.

2. When you look at an elderly person's hands what do you see? Looking at my hands, I see some wrinkles.

3. Have you ever bought shoes online? Did they fit? I am a big fan of Hot Chocolate Designs and have bought them online several times. Their sizing is consistent so I know they’ll fit.

4. What did you eat as a child that you can't stand now as an adult? I developed an aversion to certain textures (specifically mushy foods) as I grew up. As a child, I ate bananas in sour cream, applesauce, and soft cooked eggs, none of which I eat now.

5. Describe your typical day, from wake to sleep. All of this assumes that I am home, not traveling. I typically wake up somewhere between 3 and 4 in the morning and do puzzles on-line for a while. I eat breakfast around 7 a.m., then read for a while and go back to sleep for a few hours. If the weather is decent out, I go out for a walk. I try to get through various chores, though my to-do list is generally several pages long. I eat dinner about 7 p.m. I often talk on the phone with one of my friends. I spend too much time on-line. Some evenings I go out to some sort of performance (or go to one on-line) or play games with friends. I typically go to bed about 10:00 p.m. and I pretty much always read for a while before that.

Of course, if I’m traveling, then I’m generally sightseeing during the day.

6. What if your life had been harder or easier? How do you think you'd be different? I think my life has been relatively easy, though there were difficult times, like grad school. I’ve generally been able to pull myself together and fight my way through the challenges. So I don’t think I’d be very different if my life had been harder or easier.

7. What did you want to be when you grew up? It varied from year to year. At various times, I wanted to be an astronaut, a chemist (specifically Marie Curie), a race car driver, an actress, and the first woman to pitch for the New York Mets.

8. What would it be like to be in a tornado? I don’t know and I don’t want to find out.

9. What would you do if you woke up one morning with a tail? I think that depends on what sort of tail. A cute little puffy bunny tail wouldn’t be very intrusive, but a long prehensile monkey-ish tail would make it challenging to adjust clothes to fit.

10. What yes or no questions have you ever decided by flipping a coin? I don’t think I’ve ever decided anything by flipping a coin.

11. You are given 24 hours to do whatever you would like, money no object. What do you do and why? I’d travel somewhere. Maybe take the United Island Hopper through the South Pacific. The catch is that 24 hours is not really long enough for most places I want to go.

12. If you had to choose between having a personal chef, a housekeeper, or a personal trainer, which would you pick and why? I’d definitely pick a housekeeper, since cleaning is something I generally find unpleasant to do.

13. If you were in a band, what instrument would you be playing? Maybe an oboe.

14. Describe what you hear when you hear nothing. I am rather prone to musical earworms, but that doesn’t really qualify as hearing nothing.

15. If you saw an alien, what would you do? Probably scream. Then I’d conclude that I was hallucinating.

16. Tell about a time when someone made you feel welcomed or accepted. What did they do and how did it make you feel? Not long after I first got involved in storytelling, I went to a weekend retreat. The weather was terrible and the drive took ages. But when I arrived, I was immediately greeted by someone I had met at the storytelling group I had started going to and she welcomed me enthusiastically. And she is still one of my close friends.

17. What is your least favorite chore and why? Nature abhors a vacuum and so do I.

18. Describe a fair, parade, or festival you have attended. I’ve gone to lots of crafts fairs and folk festivals. I always enjoy seeing creativity on display. One particularly memorable event was a Celtic music festival I went to in northern California with two of my friends. It was the first time I heard the band Old Blind Dogs and they were having a terrible time with their instruments in the heat. But it was still a great weekend, largely because of the company.

19. Have you, or your family, ever been affected by war? Describe how. My father and grandfather were Holocaust survivors and lost most of their family.

20. Tell what you like about one of your hobbies. I like knitting and crocheting because I can make beautiful things to wear or to keep myself warm.

21. Tell a story that you have had with one of your aunts or uncles (or some other family member) When I was growing up, I really wanted a chemistry set. My great-aunt Bernice bought me a “make your own perfume” kit as what she thought was a more suitable feminine alternative.

22. Tell about something that you and your siblings used to do together. We explored the area we lived in, either on foot or by bicycle. Back at home, we played board games.

23. What is something you liked about your childhood? My family listened to music together a lot. Dad would bring home the latest Broadway cast albums or comedy records. We also sang along with my Mom playing the guitar.

24. If you had the option to know the day and time of your death, would you want to know? There’s a part of me that would want to know, mostly so I’d know what annoying chores I could just stop doing. And it would be nice to be able to bid a proper good-bye to various people in my life.

25. What rituals do you have or hold? I always put my clean laundry away in a particular order - linens first, then pants and skirts, then tops, then socks, then underwear.

26. Should there be a dress code in places such as school, restaurants, and places of business? Why or why not? I think there should be guidelines in certain places so that people can conform to expectations, which makes everyone feel more comfortable.

27. What would happen if everyone wore the same clothes? It would make choosing what to wear far easier, but it would get pretty boring.

28. List your favorite cozy fall activities and why they bring you joy. I like walking in woods full of fall color, then coming in and drinking hot cider by a fireplace.

29. Name 3 things you love about your job. I’m retired now, but when I was working three things I liked were: 1) I had a lot of flexibility and variety in what I did from day to day, 2) I worked with some people who I could bounce ideas off of, which often helped me to think through how to approach a problem, and 3) I earned a good salary and benefits.

30. What is something that you are looking forward to doing today? It’s a bit late in the day for looking forward to doing something. But I would like to make a dent in the stack of travel brochures I’ve accumulated.

31. How do you express love for someone? If you’re someone I love, I’m pretty sure I can make you know that. For one thing, I give good hugs.
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Continuing catching up on celebrity death watch. I’ll probably take a break to write about some other things after finishing up 2024, but will try to get up to date on this soon.

Celebrity Death Watch - October 2024: David Turnham was a New York Times journalist who wrote about police corruption. Susie Bering was a golf champion. SuEllen Fried was an anti-bullying activist. Luis Tiant pitched for the Boston Red Sox in the 1970’s. Ethel Kennedy was the widow of Robert F. Kennedy and a human rights advocate in her own right. Lily Ledbetter was an activist for equal-pay. Richard Secord was an Air Force major general who conducted covert operations in Laos and led the only successful rescue of American POWs during the Vietnam war. Liam Payne was a member of the boy band One Direction. Mitzi Gaynor was an actress, notable for playing Nellie Forbush in the film version of South Pacific. Phil Lesh was the bassist for and a founding member of the Grateful Dead.

Teri Garr was a comedic actress, who appeared in such films as Tootsie and Young Frankenstein.

Celebrity Death Watch - November 2024: Jonathan Haze was an actor who played Seymour Krelboined in the original (1960 non-musical) Little Shop of Horrors movie. Jim Hoagland was a Pulitzer Prize winning journalist for the Washington Post. Bernard Marcus was the cofounder of Home Depot. Dorothy Allison was a feminist writer, most famous for Bastard Out of Carolina. Elizabeth Nunez was a novelist whose books include Anna In-Between. Ella Jenkins wrote and performed music for children. Sandra Gilbert was a feminist literary critic, best known for writing The Madwoman in the Attic. Tim Sullivan was a science fiction writer. Thomas E. Kurtz co-developed the BASIC programming language. Shel Talmy was a record producer who worked with the Who, the Kinks, David Bowie, and many others. Andy Paley was a musician who performed with The Modern Lovers and composed music for SpongeBob SquarePants. Mike Pinera played guitar for Iron Butterfly and wrote the song Ride Captain Ride. Alice Brock inspired the song Alice’s Restaurant. Cyndy Szekeres wrote and illustrated children’s books. Barbara Taylor Bradford was a prolific novelist. Bob Bryar was the drummer for My Chemical Romance from 2004 - 2010. Helen Gallagher was a Tony award winning actress. Hal Lindsay was a doomsday preacher who wrote The Late Great Planet Earth. Gabriel Escaper founded Melia Hotels. Shalom Nagar executed Adolf Eichmann.

Quincy Jones was a record producer, composer, and arranger, who won 28 Grammy awards.

Bela Karolyi was a gymnastics coach, best known for training Nadia Comaneci, Mary Lou Retton, and Kerri Strug. Some of his proteges called his coaching style abusive. In addition, Larry Nasser’s sexual abuse of young female gymnasts happened at the Karolyi Ranch.

Arthur Frommer wrote travel books. During my first trip to Europe (my college graduation present), I relied heavily on Frommer’s Europe on 25 Dollars a Day. I have used several other Frommer guidebooks over the years and found them reasonably reliable.

Chuck Woolery hosted the original daytime version of Wheel of Fortune, as well as other game shows, including Love Connection and Scrabble. He was also a musician and wrote advertising jingles.

Celebrity Death Watch - December 2024: Marvin Laird co-created the musical Ruthless! Nikki Giovanni was a poet. Donald Blitzer co-invented the plasma display. Michael Cole was an actor, best known for his role on The Mod Squad. Diane Delano was an actress who played the police sergeant on Northern Exposure. Dick van Arsdale played basketball for the New York Knicks and the Phoenix Suns. Mike Brewer (of Brewer & Shipley) wrote the song One Toke Over the Line. David Mallett wrote the Garden Song. Arlene Agus co-founded Ezrat Nashim, the first American Jewish feminist organization, and popularized the observance of Rosh Hodesh (the new month) as a women’s holiday. Richard Perry was a record producer who worked with artists ranging from Barbra Streisand to Julio Iglesias to Carly Simon. Olivia Hussey was an actress, best known for playing Juliet in the 1968 movie of Romeo and Juliet.


The Amazing Kreskin was a mentalist who appeared frequently on late night television. In other words, he was a con man.

Anita Bryant was a singer, anti-gay activist, and shill for orange juice.

Berrien Moore III studied complex systems and was the founding director of Climate Central. I knew him when I worked on the Closed Environmental Life Support System (CELSS) project at NASA Ames as a grad student.

Rickey Henderson played baseball, primarily for the Oakland A’s. He holds records for career stolen bases (leading to the moniker “Man of Steal”), runs, unintentional walks, and leadoff home runs.

Jimmy Carter was the president of the U.S. from 1977-1981. He was more successful as an ex-president, particularly noted for his work with Habitat for Humanity and working to eliminate dracuculiasis (Guinea worm disease). He also failed to understand anything at all about the Middle East.

Linda Lavin was an actress who was probably best known for the TV sitcom Alice. More significantly, she sang “You’ve Got Possibilities” in Its a Bird … It’s a Plane … It’s Superman and “The Boy From …” in The Mad Show on Broadway.

Kool night

Jul. 26th, 2025 12:17 pm
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The Tulalip casino does outdoor summer concerts every year, but we're lucky if there's even one we want to go to when summer rolls around. I've seen Diana Ross, Huey Lewis and the News, and Blondie there, but that's only three times I remember since moving up here 11 years ago. This year they booked The Commodores with Kool and the Gang, and Bev wanted to go, and Garrett's cousin Becky joined us. I was originally thinking it'd just be an ok show, but the crowd and bands were just so much fun. It helped that I got us amazing seats in the back of a section so it was easy to come and go, and I have a secret parking trick for the venue.

Commodores and Kool and the Gang

Of course, concerts are still an ordeal just because of how late they run. I think after I played with Tilly in the yard for about half an hour while Garrett walked Tuvix, I finally got in bed at 12:20 or so. Thankfully I managed to stay in bed until around 6:00, which is pretty late for me.

Today would have been a fantastic day to lounge around the house, but I'm heading out soon. My water fitness mentor has an annual party on her incredible five acre property, the star of which is a 120-foot slip and slide. It's not the standard flat one that you think of when you hear that, which is great because those are hard to enjoy. They use a hilly spot and create a homemade water slide. I didn't do it last year because I had fresh tattoos, but I'm planning to today. I made pinwheels to take and there will be dinner. I'll have a swimsuit on under my shorts and will bring undies and a towel and everything should be fine. Hopefully the hose I saw everyone rinsing off with last year won't be too cold.

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Jul. 26th, 2025 11:24 am
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Here's a meme:
Last song I listened to: Free Will by Rush
Favourite color: purple
Currently watching: The Big Lebowski
Last movie: I haven't been watching any new movies that recently. I watched the Phoenician Scheme over a month ago
Currently reading: The Ultimate Alphabet by Mike Wilks
Coffee or tea: Tea
Sweet/savoury/spicy: depends on my mood and what time it is
Relationship status: Single
Looking forward to: making lemon cupcakes for a party next week
Current obsessions: Hugh Laurie
Last Googled: random generator
Last thing you ate and really enjoyed: bacon, eggs and an English muffin with NZ butter
Currently working on: nothing really

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Jul. 26th, 2025 02:45 pm
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I was half-hearted about going to parkrun today considering how high the temperature already was when I got up (about 75°F/23°C) and how much it was predicted to rise by 9 am when parkrun starts, and I ended up skipping it. Instead I walked to Safeway - about 4 km/2 ½ miles - to buy some chicken for the curried chicken I'm planning to make tomorrow. I did buy some chicken when I was at MOM's early in the week, but it turned out I should have checked the recipe before I went because I didn't buy enough and I want to make a good number of servings so I don't have to cook for the rest of the week.

I started working on a new puzzle a couple of weeks ago and it's slow going. It's a very pretty picture but it has huge expanses of sky, plus a whole lot of pink flowers both on the ground and all over a large tree, and it's slow going.

Update

Jul. 26th, 2025 11:28 am
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When Jackie got to elbow coffee this morning, she said 'oh, Susan, I got my computer fixed! Turns out it wasn't even broken. I just wasn't clicking on the right thing.' I am so glad I backed out of that mess before it hit miss level. And now she thinks I'm incompetent which is PERFECT.

Today I took skeins of yarn to roll into the small balls I like to use. It's a chore that I really don't enjoy but doing it during elbow coffee is very useful. It gives me something to focus on and enables me to more easily keep my mouth shut. Worked perfectly.

Now, volleyball is done - it was good. And elbow coffee is done. Dinner is ordered for pick up. And the Phillies are ahead of the Yankees in the 4th.

I have baseball to watch and knitting to do and afternoon free. Oh and Steve brought me a cucumber this morning so I'm going to slice it up to have in a sandwich with the rest of my ham for lunch.

Life is good.

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friday

Jul. 25th, 2025 08:47 pm
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Snake Eyes.

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I've been keeping busy with washing and packing up the clothes for goodwill that Hazel didn't want anymore. I've condensed 10 big black garbage bags of stuff into smaller sized white bags of the good stuff by being very ruthless. This picture is of a sash that was on a pink and black satin dress. The dress couldn't be saved but I cut this beaded part off before I threw it in the garbage.

I'm watching an Italian series called Everything Calls for Salvation (2024) on netflix - dubbed. It's pretty good. About a young guy who ends up in a psych ward. The characters are interesting.

Those Who Are Gone, Part 1

Jul. 25th, 2025 07:21 pm
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Memorials for people I knew: Somehow or other, celebrity death watch completely slipped off my to-do list. My last update was apparently a year ago, i.e. in July 2024. I’ll get to that in a moment, but first let me note that I’ve gone to four memorial services or funerals in that time.

I knew Becky Feld through her husband, Harold, who is (among other things) a storyteller. They had hosted some story swaps at their home. She died in early December after a prolonged illness. I admired how dedicated Harold was to caring for her during that time.

Angela Lloyd, who was an amazing storyteller, died in early January. I first met her in Los Angeles back in the early 1990's and enjoyed her unique mix of stories and songs, accompanied by the washboard, the autoharp and other instruments. Her musical talents extended to “playing” the squeaky floor of the stage at a festival. I will never forget the directions to her home on a ranch in Victorville, which included the sentence, “you are now entering the ranch. Please sing the theme song from Bonanza.” She was a charming and quirky person and well-loved in our community.

In April I drove down to Charlottesville for a memorial ceilidh for Eve Watters, who was a storyteller, artist, and harp player. I was glad to be able to support her husband, Ian (who is an artist and storyteller in his own right), and to see a couple of other storytellers who I rarely see.

I worked closely with Mark Baird during my time supporting the Air Force secretariat. We had a running joke about his desire to go to Belize and my desire to go to Mozambique. He was smart and amiable and hard-working. He died in late November 2023, but his funeral was not until this May because of the scheduling constraints at Arlington National Cemetery. He deserved the pomp and the ceremony of full military honors, complete with a large band and a 21-gun salute. I also saw several people I hadn’t seen in quite some time at the reception afterwards.


Celebrity Death Watch - July 2024: Joe Egan was a singer and songwriter for Stealers Wheel. Joe Bonsai sang with the Oak Ridge Boys. Jim Inhofe was a Republican senator from Oklahoma. Dave Loggins wrote the song “Please Come to Boston.” Shelly Duval was a film actress who appeared in The Shining and Time Bandits among others. M. J. Engh was a science fiction writer. Bob Booker produced comedy albums, including The First Family, You Don’t Have to Be Jewish, and When You’re in Love, the Whole World is Jewish. Shannen Doherty was an actress, best known for Beverly Hills, 90210. James B. Sikking was an actor who appeared in Hill Street Blues. Richard Simmons made fitness videos, which I am slightly embarrassed to still own a couple of. Bernice Johnson Reagon was a singer and activist and founder of Sweet Honey in the Rock. Jill Schary Robinson wrote the novel Bed / Time / Story. Duke Fakir was the last surviving member of the Four Tops. John Mayall was a blues and rock musician. Lewis Lapham was the long time editor of Harper’s Magazine.

Dr. Ruth Westheimer was a sex therapist who had a popular radio show. Before that, she had fled from the Nazis as a child and, after the war, fought as a sniper for the Haganah in Jerusalem. There was a very interesting play, Becoming Dr. Ruth about her life.

Bob Newhart was a comedian and actor. His driving instructor sketch was one of the funniest routines ever. His TV shows were also funny in a low-key style.


Celebrity Death Watch - August 2024: Ina Jaffe was an NPR correspondent. Jeremy Strong wrote children’s books. Wally Amos was famous for his chocolate chip cookies. Gena Rowlands was an actress who won four Emmy awards. Peter Marshall hosted Hollywood Squares. Phil Donahue was a talk show host. Les Earnest was a computer scientist who, among other innovations, developed the first spell checker. Ron Hale and Jim Houghton acted in soap operas. Leonard Reggio was the chairman of Barnes & Noble for almost 40 years. Michael Lerner edited Tikkun, a liberal Jewish magazine.

Celebrity Death Watch - September 2024: Linda Deutsch was a journalist who covered a number of high profile court cases for Associated Press. James Darren was a singer and actor, whose roles included starring as Dr. Anthony Newman in The Time Tunnel. Screaming’ Scott Simon played piano for Sha Na Na. Alberto Fujimori was the president of Peru through the 1990’s. Tito Jackson was part of The Jackson 5. Tongsun Park was a South Korean lobbyist who got involved in a couple of scandals. Murray Greenfield cofounded Gefen publishing, which publishes a lot of books of Jewish content. Kris Kristofferson was a singer-songwriter and actor. Ron Ely was an actor, best known for playing Tarzan. Gaven Creel was a musical theatre actor. Pete Rose was a baseball player and gambler.

Sergio Mendes was a bossa nova musician whose songs included The Look of Love and The Fool on the Hill.

Ed Kranepool played for the Mets through his entire baseball career and was the last remaining player from their 1962 inaugural season when he retired in 1979. He came to my synagogue to talk and sign autographs when I was a small child and my mother made sure we all got his autograph.

James Earl Jones was an actor who appeared in numerous movies, TV shows, and theatrical productions. He had a distinctive voice and won several lifetime achievement awards.

Daniel J. Evans was the governor of Washington from 1965-1977 and a U.S. Senator in the 1980’s. He was also on my ghoul pool list.

Maggie Smith was an amazing actress, best known for The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie.

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Jul. 25th, 2025 03:21 pm
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Here are a couple of consumer tips:
Don't buy Vietti's canned chili, it's the worst canned chili I ever ate in my life. Eurgh.
Trader Joe brand Irish butter and garlic potato chips are YUMMY!! I like them almost as much as I like those Hawaiian potato chips.

IT support rant

Jul. 25th, 2025 01:15 pm
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People unwilling to learn how to use computers should not be allowed to touch them. Or should have live in 24/7 IT Support.

Jackie, new girl, came out to the elbow to find me puzzling. "Susan, can you help me?" "I'll try, what do you need help with, Jackie?" "That IT guy installed Gmail on my computer and now all my Xfinity icons are missing."

It did not get any better. Once there, she waived her hand in front of the screen and asked Where are all my icons? She had clicked on Chrome. She had no bookmarks. I suggested she contact the guy who worked on her computer. "But he won't come today, it's Friday." She's actually probably right there. We logged into her Xfinity mail account and the situation did not get better.

What are the icons you are looking for? It would help if I had specifics of what they were. "All the things I go to every day."

Reminded me of the old gag - What's the Soup du Jour? Answer: Soup of the Day.

Although she clicks on these icons every day, she had no idea where or what she was clicking on - could not give me a clue. "It's all my important stuff." So, Jackie, easy to say in hind sight, but you might want to make a note of the specifics - if it's newspaper, what newspaper exactly. If it's a group, what group exactly. Then she started with the snark. "Those people (meaning the IT guy) aren't very responsive, are they? I put in a work order a week ago and he just came today."

Actually, not really his job to install stuff for her at all, that was very nice of him to do.

"So you won't help me." Yep, that's correct. "Jackie, I'm sorry, but I don't know your computer or how you have it set up to use. You need to go to whoever set it up for you originally or back to the guy who made changes."

AND get the fuck out of my face. I did notice, when I went into her apartment, that she had a jigsaw puzzle in progress in her den. I said a little prayer of thank you that she does not work our puzzles in the elbow.

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Jul. 25th, 2025 03:55 pm
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I'm making a loaf of sourdough cinnamon raisin bread today, and you'd better believe I'm keeping a very close eye on it so that it doesn't rise too much, considering that the temperature outside is around 95°F/35°C. Yes, the a/c is set to 78°F (so I'm comfortable in here) but sourdough bread is extremely sensitive to both heat and humidity and rises much more quickly in hot weather.

I had a good night's sleep last night but even though I felt refreshed when I woke up, I had decided last night that I would have a lazy morning - i.e. no early morning exercise (or later exercise either) so I didn't get up when the alarm went off, instead I lay around in bed reading for almost two hours. Basically the whole day has been lazy apart from making the bread. It's forecast to be very hot for the next week or so, and I'm really not looking forward to it. I'm kind of tempted to skip the exercise for the whole week, but I know I'd end up feeling bad if I did that so I guess I'll be forcing myself out in the early mornings as usual.

My alarm didn't go off before its set time this morning, but I had ordered another one yesterday which arrived today so I won't be using the old one any more. Hoping the new one doesn't develop the same fault. (It's a different brand, and cheaper too.)

Friday

Jul. 25th, 2025 07:37 am
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The very big news around here is that we are getting not one, but two Asian grocery stores here in Issaquah and one of them is my very favorite from my old neighborhood - Uwajimaya!!! And it will be very nearly the closest grocery store to me! HMart is also moving here, not far but not as close. Mucho excitement. I don't know when either is opening. Probably not until next year but hallefuckinglooyah!!!

I also learned yesterday from Bonny, that I am off the default Hazel and John taxi list. They apparently went to her earlier in the week and asked for a ride to the doctor and she told them yes and then decided it wasn't convenient so she went and told them no but also suggested they use Lyft which they have done quite successfully in the past. They had totally forgotten about that. They do it through the front desk receptionist and it works fine for them. So WHEW!! John called me yesterday and he said the doctors told him he has amyloidosis. Google tells me this is rare and treatment is chemotherapy, organ transplant or targeted medication therapy. No cure. And it sounds pretty fucking fatal for an 89 year old. But John has not been told any of this yet. At least I'm not longer responsible for them.

Mid morning yesterday I got several email and texts that the shades install guy's wife had a baby Wednesday night so no shades install. This actually was good news as I was just not up for it yesterday. No word from them since so today won't be it either. Which is fine.

Today is new menu day. We still have today and tomorrow for the scrumptious tenderloin steak and caramelized onions. No nasty spinach swap last night - whew!!

I do think it's pretty weird that when I find a meal I love, I am perfectly fine with having it every night for a week. After the week, I'm ready to move on. I'm ok with variety but I am also happy to have a great meal on repeat.

My Netflix month ends today. I'm all caught up. If/when another something comes up that I want to see, I'll start it up again. I have Apple + and PBS Masterpiece running now at reduced rates (thank you, Amazon) and a fair amount to watch on both. And, of course, the Mariners. I've gotten pretty good at keeping my high priced feeds managed so that if I'm not watching, I'm not paying.

But, my big TV find lately has been the Roku channel. They now have all the British Sewing Bee episodes!! Except, of course, the latest season that just started last week. But, I'm guessing it will be added eventually. Also they have all episodes of that bake off after show. It's dumb but interesting for a few episodes anyway.

Nothing happening today which is lovely. I think I'll get dressed and go downstairs to pick up the menus and my Amazon package which was just delivered to the lockers. After that, who knows??

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Jul. 24th, 2025 03:24 pm
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The new cat tower is being used. There is contention and Snow is a bit of a bully. He chases Festis every time she tries to use it. Last night there was an argument and they both fell off as they tried to commit murder on each other.

I moved the older tower in alongside the new one. It’s rather rickety but it provides a view of the back yard where everything is happening. I’m hoping the cats can peacefully coexist if each has a seat at the window.

I play a computer game called “June’s Journey” and about a week ago I started getting a message that there was a ‘security threat’ and it wouldn’t open. Inquieres told me that I wasn’t the only one. It was a new update they did and their website said that they didn’t support Chrome. Well, you have for the last 6/7 years. I don’t know anything about IT but cutting your customer base seems that you’re going in the wrong direction. I miss my game. Once in a survey I did for them I asked if they got their servers at a garage sale. Things have always been chancy with them.

I finished “Agents of Shield”. Whedon is a jerk but he and his family (blood and artistic) turn out good series. I’m going to miss the gang. Coulson is immortal, as it should be.

There is going to be a brief interlude before starting my next set of dvds as I want to rewatch Ghosts (UK) for writing purposes.

I’m getting bored of summer. And there’s still August to get through.

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Jul. 24th, 2025 02:24 pm
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Did a little grocery shopping but the major grocery shopping trip isn't till next week, I'm making lemon cupcakes for a party I'm going to on 8/2 and brownies for a friend's birthday on 8/5!

365 Questions 2025

Jul. 24th, 2025 03:51 pm
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19. What do you think is worth waiting for? Anything that will enrich your life.

20. What chances do you wish you had taken? I can't think of any chances I wish I'd taken, but I can think of decisions I made which changed my life - chances I took, I guess.

21. Where else would you like to live? Why? I'd like to live in London or Boston, because both of those are old cities which are very walkable, at least until you get out into the suburbs.

22. What motivates you to go to work each day? No job, so I don't need that motivation.

23. What do you wish you had done differently? I wish I'd been a better parent. In many ways I was a good parent, but I'm very conscious of mistakes I made in the way I handled some things.

24. What is your greatest strength and your greatest weakness? I think my greatest strength is my ability to doggedly persevere through hard things. One of my greatest weaknesses is procrastination when I'm not sure how to proceed or I'm afraid to proceed.

Sweating out a return with no receipt

Jul. 24th, 2025 11:39 am
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When I return things to Amazon through UPS they always give me a recipt.  It is a package sticker kind of thing that is not cheap for them and really a waste.  I usually put them in the trash in my car knowing that it will be there still if I need it.  But just as frequently I say I don't need a receipt.  Typically the return is for $20 or less and would not kill me if I lost the money but the delivery is always there.  And normally I get an email from Amazon saying that the return is on the way.  Alternately there is a Whole Foods 360 that is 5 miles away that used to have an Amazon drop off kiosk.  I think that is gone as I've not had that alternative for a long time.

I took my way over $20 Chromebook return to UPS all packaged up and ready to go and, as usual, said no thanks to the return.  This was on a Saturday.  Of course there was no pickup on a Saturday or Sunday so I was already a bit nervous that the UPS status was not helpful and Amazon had no record yet and I did not have a receipt.

Amazon still has no record but, whew, UPS says 'out for delivery' today.  I expect to have my money safely back in my account by end of today.  It will help pay off some of the airline cost I just incurred for the Octover trip to my son's wedding.  

I had to move some money from my Investment account to be sure I can cover the credit card tomorrow.  No vilolation of the weekly pay off rule.  I've planned for this for the past six months squirelling away money in the investment account for just this purpose.  Still, it was nice to see it in there and annoying to have to transfer it out.

It will start rebuilding immediately and will be back to normal by end of the year.  Meanwhile I worry less and less about spending a reasonable amount of money as the days and years go by.  

We have a large lump of money coming from USAA in four months as a result of leaving them.  As a mutual we held our share of the company by having a percentage of our monthly payment held back for the member's pool of funds.  That was fine and now I've left USAA they will return my portion.  It will likely go to a trip to someplace like Scotland or Hawaii or something like that.

While we can still move around and do anything best to take advantage.

Zoe today:  She is snoring on the floor behind me.  Yesterday she really wanted to turn back a third of the way into the walk but this morning was galumphing along having a good time.  And now is napping as only she can nap. 

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Jul. 24th, 2025 12:33 pm
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Ugh, I woke up around 2 am and was unable to go back to sleep. So it's now midday and I've been up for ten hours. At this rate, having also had a short night about four nights ago, I'm averaging about 5 hours sleep a night and it's not quite enough. (Unless this is my new normal.)

Back in March I bought a vibrating alarm clock that goes under my pillow, and it's been working really well. I have it set on the lowest vibration and it's plenty loud enough to wake me, plus it's really easy to turn off if I don't want the alarm to go off for some reason. When I was using an old phone as my alarm it felt like a huge hassle to turn it on and reset or turn off the alarm if necessary, so this clock is a big improvement over that. However… the clock has developed a random fault that I don't think I can live with. Every so often it goes off sometime during the night, an hour or two before it's supposed to go off, which of course wakes me up unnecessarily, and then goes off again at the correct time. I vaguely remember it happening a few weeks ago and waking me up, but this morning it happened again around 3:45 am when I was already awake, so I knew I hadn't imagined it the first time. This is not acceptable, so I'm looking at different models of the same kind of alarm clock. (Vibrating, under-the-pillow alarms for the hard of hearing.)

Okay, funny story. I just went to Amazon and wrote a review of this clock. When I'd submitted it, Amazon showed me some other things I'd recently bought and told me to write six more reviews and they'd tell me a joke. Really? A joke is my reward for reviewing products?

'tude

Jul. 24th, 2025 08:30 am
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I spent all day yesterday avoiding people and it was great. Until last night. I was watching the baseball game and it was extra innings and the teams were swapping the lead back and forth, so quite riveting, when Martha stopped in. I was not in a Martha mood and I wanted to watch the baseball.

And then Martha started talking about Hazel and how I need to let Timber Ridge take over what their sons can't/won't do. In Martha world, this is like a switch. In the real world this is not going to happen ever. "Well, Hazel needs to... " "Timber Ridge should..." While telling me that I need to be careful about doing too much.

I do love Martha and most days, I'm delighted to have her input. But, last night was not most days. So I missed some key baseball action and went to bed grumpy. Oh and also, I ordered caramelized onions as a side with my dinner and they left them out and replaced them with spinach! In what fucking world is spinach an acceptable substitute for caramelized onions?????????

But, today I'm all better.

The shades installer is supposed to come today to rehang my window shade so that I can, once again, open the window. His office says he'll be here sometime between 12 and 4. Based on the last time, that means I can expect him about 4:30 or 5. Oh, wait, the woman who called said 12-4. BUT the email says 12-1 and the text just says 12. Soooooo arrival time is not this morning but any-time-is-a-good-guess this afternoon. I'm not looking forward to dealing with him because of the sloppy job he did last time. But I am looking forward to having my shades fixed.

And while I'm being snarky and bitchy... did I say I was all better this morning??? ... my tendinitis is back in my right elbow. I felt it a little last Tuesday when playing volleyball. I mean to wear my elbow brace this morning and left it in my closet. So I played with my right arm behind my back. I used it for a couple of shots but mainly used my left hand/arm to play with. I was actually kind of surprised at what a nice job it did. It certainly earned its keep. BUT my Pixel watch was exhausted after 2 hours. It detected 2 car wrecks and 3 falls. I kept having to stop and tell it that I was fine. I suspect I have now fucked up their detection data but good.

Next up, I need to get dressed and then go down to the front desk and pick up the copies of the Timber Ridge Times for our floor and distribute them. John has done it for a long time but I told him I'd take over. They usually have them out and ready on my way back from volleyball but not today. No prob. I can use the steps.

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Scrunch

Jul. 24th, 2025 10:50 am
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The kiskas have baskets & baskets of toys, but the only one they care about is Scrunch, a distinctly unprepossessing proto-rodent with weird blue fiber tendrils.

Every morning begins with a hunt for Scrunch. Where did they hide him last night? In the Patrizia-torium, in the bathroom, in the closet, downstairs? Scrunch turns up all over the house because when Icky is not on the premises, the kiskas scamper madly up & down the stairs and hang out in the living room.

I wish I could figure out the secret to Scrunch's appeal. It is a great mystery.



In other news, yesterday morning was difficult because the night before my computer charger abruptly gave up the ghost. (My computer battery has been telling me for months now it needs to be serviced, but me being me, I have been ignoring it.)

A computer charger is nothing, right? $25 bucks. A 30-minute drive to Best Buy at the Middletown Galleria.

And I absolutely knew it was the computer charger.

But (again me being me), I drove myself to the verge of a nervous breakdown by imagining, What if it isn't the charger? What if it's the computer? (USB ports, some motherboard mojo, something.) What if Computer Hub in New Paltz can't fix the computer, what if all my credit cards spontaneously stop working and I can't buy a new computer, what if the collectively-minded Cornell professor shoots me an email—On further reflection, Patrizia, I have decided you are a complete asshole—and I am forced to live in thrall to Icky for-fuckin'-evah, what if a meteor hits the earth—

Brian was one of my grounding rods. Without Brian, my anxiety is a volatile compound.

And the thing about this kind of anxiety is that it's so ridiculous, you can't really talk about it. You have to hide it. Though it seeps out, of course: When I drove to Best Buy yesterday, I was driving erratically and almost got into two accidents.

Thing about Brian's death, I suppose, is not just the death of an immeasurably dear friend but also the sheer unexpectedness of that death.

One morning you are shooting the breeze about how best to impress a Gardiner Bakehouse audience with your impressive storytelling talents at the open mike, then the next morning, the recipient of your charming windiness has toppled head down onto his kitchen table, never to rise again. Does Not Compute.

The hypervigilance of the abused & neglected child.

If something happens that you have not foreseen and prepared yourself for, the whole infrastructure crumbles.

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Came home. Remunerated. Chatted with Neighbor Ed for a bit. Chatted with my friend Tom whose medical crisis has had a happy ending. (I never asked what the medical crisis was: I figure if people want you to know about stuff like that, they'll tell you.)

I'm so glad, I said. Just lost one good pal, don't wanna lose any others.

I hear that-I’ve lost a couple of pals/work mates in the last week
, Tom said.

And proceeded to tell me about a guy he knew who'd just commited suicide in the Grand Rapids, MI, airport parking garage. Crazy! In the midst of a late life divorce, between jobs, but the craziest part was that the guy was a hardcore Christian, used to travel around doing revivals in a family gospel group.

And there was absolutely no one he trusted enough to confide his despair in.

Life can be really hard.

And we are the people on this planet for whom life is easiest.

thursday

Jul. 24th, 2025 01:48 am
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Bubbles the Cat.

Yesterday I decided to quit the hospital volunteer job. It just didn't bring me much joy. I didn't feel connected. It was like I was always on the outside looking in while there. Nobody (much) talked to me. But as usual I am second guessing myself now (in the middle of the night, trying to sleep, I'm still going over the whole thing in my mind) but at the time it truly felt like the right thing to quit. I was tired of doing busy work and organizing closets there when I could be at home creating my own clean and organized spaces instead. While Hazel was here last weekend we went through multiple bags of her old clothes that had been stored in the basement so now I have a huge pile of clothes that needs washed to take to goodwill. With those clothes out of there I'm finally getting somewhere with the basement cleanup! I felt that pulling at me while at the hospital yesterday morning and it annoyed me to be there. I had useful things I could have been doing at home. Anyway I gave them the excuse that I want to switch my volunteer time to the Sugar Creek nursing home instead because it's closer. That's not a lie. It is much easier to drive to the nursing home. It only takes a few minutes to get there, instead of half an hour to get to the hospital. And I'm only at the nursing home for less than an hour at a time to help with bingo, instead of tying up an entire morning at the hospital. So it's done. My experiment of volunteering at the hospital is over.
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