And now they are on the road again

Jun. 27th, 2025 11:05 am
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We had a lovely breakfast and a visit and a chat about their next trip here and then they got into the car and headed out.

It was really fun to have them here. They have a short list of places in the US they still want to see and those they want to revisit. And then I showed them, on the map, the route western from Charlotte through Asheville, over the mountains and then to Memphis and beyond. It's section of the country they have never seen that is very different from what they have seen. They think 2 years and that that might be their last trip.

It is 11:15 and the Pride parade is downstairs at 11:30 and I'm not going. Martha will shame me for it but I'm peopled out. I did my Pride bit for the year with the dolls.

I just want to put my feet up and knit and not talk to anyone for about a week. Or at least a day.

I do need to do a load of laundry.

Oh one interesting bit to note. Years ago, before Kripy Kreme donuts even had retail shops, you could get them in any grocery store always. Then they opened stores. I'm pretty sure, in the south, you could still get them at grocery stores, out here they have always been a shop only donut. Until now. We first found them at Walmart. I bought a box of 6. They were fabulously fresh! Then, yesterday, we were in a Target and they had them! I bought a box of 6. They were fabulously fresh! I told Scott and Julie that I have to buy a box everywhere I see them to let them know how much I approve of this third party retail scheme.

Also of note, TJ Max has some lovely clothes for fat girls. I did not know this until this week. I am now over clothed but not unhappy about it.

Julie pronounces Minneapolis Minini-apolis. It's very cute.

friday

Jun. 27th, 2025 01:17 pm
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Life Is a Bubble.

Berdella got sad news yesterday afternoon that her grandson passed away. He collapsed with a brain aneurysm in the morning and was gone by the afternoon. Chloe and Johnny used to be babysat with him and his younger sister. He is Chloe's age. A shock to hear this.

I've decided that I need a dose of Alan Watts to deal with the things that are bothering me in my life right now. My usual reading of the news is not helping me. My personality trait of being a shy introvert isn't helping either. I need to get outside of myself. Back when I was taking care of mom and thinking about the idea of death a lot of the time I got a set of Sounds True CDs to listen to with Alan Watts' lectures. I listened to the first one but then (as I do) moved my interest onto something else and ended up giving them away to someone, I don't remember who. But it doesn't matter. I wouldn't want them back. It will be better if I listen to Watts on you-tube now. I love his voice and his phrasings. It's calming.

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Jun. 27th, 2025 10:10 am
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I want to be a good ally but I don't go to Pride anymore because somebody hit or kicked me in the ass when my back was turned, so I'm not doing anything this weekend other than watch more CSI DVDs.

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Jun. 27th, 2025 12:44 pm
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We've had a sudden and unexpected cool change - it's only about 21°C/70°F today, cloudy and overcast and occasionally drizzly. I'm loving having all the windows open even though I'm slightly too cold! Unfortunately the forecast says it will be back up to 34°C/93°F tomorrow, so the respite is extremely brief.

I thought I'd decided on a pattern to use for my crochet flower granny square blanket, but I've found several other interesting free patterns so I'm undecided. I think I'll make sample squares of the most appealing ones and then decide. If more than one of them turn out to be the same size, I'll mix it up and use more than one design. The one I was planning to use is huge (12 inches by 12 inches) and I think I'd prefer to have more smaller squares rather than fewer large ones.

LJ is still being weird today, taking ages to load pages.

A bit of fun with chatgpt

Jun. 27th, 2025 11:17 am
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I've never known what to say to AI chat.  There is one that you can pay $19/month for that will keep you happy and safe as a senior.  Or something like that.  In the past month or two I've asked a few questions but nothing that would qualify as a conversation.

But I thought I'd do a quick experiment and I input a kind of didactic statement to ChatGPT regarding man and God to see what it would say.  I brought out my inner Archibald MacLeash.  The AI told me how inciteful was my observation and proceeded to give me a nicely referenced discussion of my assertion.  It was fun.  I added some more information, another observation, and again was complemented on my discerning intellect.  We went back and forth some and the AI was generally very supportive and encouraging.  It was the nicest kind of place to be.  Like my teacher finally realized I deserved an A+.  I kept a copy of the exchange.

And, of course, my bullshit meter went off.  Clearly I'm brilliant but not THAT brilliant. 

So I thought I'd reverse my arguement in another session.  I opened an incognito window so the AI would not know who I was and compare the two and took the oposing view of my same statement.  This time with religion at the core of everything that might happen good in the country's future.  

And got a kind of pat on the head.  The answer was more 'Yes, but' as compared to the previous 'YES AND'.  

If Chatbot is essentially a compendium of all of the Internet and much of the written word it is an interesting thought that the result skews towards rationalism over theology or whatever the two opposites are.  

Oh, yeah, the reason I went down this path had been lost in my subconscious until I just wrote that last.  There is an AI that specilaizes in the Bible (presumably the Christain Bible but no idea which one).  My thought was that this is the ultimate echo chamber.  Using an AI to bolster arguments that allow all the ridiculous contradictions that are inherent in humanity.

That is only allowed if I do it.

The 2025 Travel & Adventure Show

Jun. 27th, 2025 11:04 am
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Continuing the catch-up posts, the only other thing I did in March was go to the Travel Show. I was thinking about not going this year, but Cindy had gotten free tickets, so why not?

As usual, we divided our time between listening to some of the speakers and going up and down the aisles to explore the offerings of the various vendors. The first talk I listened to was Travel, Connect, Transform with Andrew McCarthy. McCarthy is a former brat pack actor who has written a number of articles for travel magazines, as well as a few books, including one about walking the Camino de Santiago with his son. He showed some video clips and talked about travel in general. Unfortunately, he also didn’t really know how to use a microphone, and tended to wander away from the podium.

Tamara Mallin of a company called Fresh Tracks Canada gave a talk titled Canada is Calling! I was hoping she would answer my long-running question about what there might be to do in Saskatchewan, but she failed at that. She did, at least, mention the existence of the Maritimes, but she talked mostly about cross-Canada rail travel and had a little bit about Churchill, Manitoba (which I have been to).

I listened a little to What to Expect from your Antarctica Expedition, presented by a guy from Atlas Ocean Voyages, but it was basically a promo for the Antarctic peninsula and didn’t have anything much about South Georgia and the Falklands, nor did it mention the Ross Sea region or the sub-Antarctic islands of New Zealand.

The most useful talk was How to Save Money on Travel Insurance by Brandon Hughbanks from Travel Insurance Center. I may use his services at some point in the future.

As for the exhibitors, there were too many pitching time shares, mega cruise ships, and other things of little interest to me, but there were a few with info about places I would consider going to. I picked up a supply of brochures and replenished my swag supply (mostly tote bags). Cindy and I tried to get dinner afterwards, but I was wrong that we wouldn’t need a reservation at Unconventional Diner if we went early, so we failed at that. Next year’s travel show is in mid-January and whether or not I go depends on my ability to get free admission.

A good time was had by all - the dets

Jun. 27th, 2025 06:54 am
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TL;DR My friends came. They loved Timber Ridge. We shopped and shopped and shopped and shopped. And had a great visit. My feet are broken. I have an appointment with a new (to me) podiatrist on Tuesday. The Pride monsters were a huge hit and now it's back to dolls. My new window shades have a fatal error. Regular life resumes this afternoon.

The details.

Julie and Scott live on the South Island of New Zealand in a beautiful tiny town. They have been all over the United States in all the big cities. This tour - two months - is driving around - first Canada and then the western United States (except California).

Even in the biggest town in New Zealand, they shopping opportunities are not what they are here in the US. They just don't have the selection and they have the add on of 'shipped to small island far away' tax. So here, particularly Julie, wallows in all the choices available. The last time they were here, two years ago, they wanted to shop and, for some reason, we ended up down in Federal Way where we discovered chain shop heaven. Lovely stores of Old Navy, Skeechers, Walmart, Target, etc.

This time they wanted to go back to all those places plus they found North Bend Outlets on Google and wanted to go there.

So we started at North Bend which is not too far up the road. And a lovely drive. But the outlet mall there is a bust and a half. The stores were sparse and empty. But, they drive was lovely. And we saw other stuff.

So we came back here and toured Timber Ridge and Issaquah. They are pretty impressed with Timber Ridge. and Issaquah always presents nicely.

Tuesday we went back to Federal Way and did not miss any stores. Julie had a ball and Scott got new shoes and it was a huge hit. Wednesday, there was more shopping and we found the Issaquah troll which was way more impressive than I expected.

Yesterday, Thursday, it was into Bellevue to that huge, lovely, downtown mall. And then to the conveyor belt sushi place for lunch. Fun and delicious.

In between, we've been enjoying Timber Ridge. We've eaten in all the dining rooms and tried all the various serving options except lunch. All have been pretty impressive.

Today they leave. They are taking the next few weeks to drive from here via Salt Lake City and Yellowstone and Mt. Rushmore to Chicago where they will fly to San Francisco and then home. It's such a wonderful trip.

Meanwhile, my feet are just screaming at me. Finally, on Wednesday, I sent a note to my doctor asking for referral to a podiatrist or any other suggestion. She got right back to me with a couple of podiatrist options and I was able to get an appointment here in Issaquah for this coming Tuesday! Yeah.

Oh and it's window washing time at Timber Ridge. I have a panel of three windows. The middle one opens. They use it to hang out and wash the outside of all three panels. It's a good system. Except. When the shade guy designed and the installer guy installed, none of us realized that the scheme will completely bar me from ever opening that window again. So no cleaning. Ever. I have now sent him a note asking what he can do about it. I'm guessing nothing. And it's not fatal. But they should not have been installed that way. Weird and a little annoying.

Today is the Timber Ridge Pride parade which is just about the same time Scott and Julie were planning on leaving and will block in their car. I suspect it will be a short parade and not interrupt the leaving for long.

And now I think I'm caught up. I should get dressed and ready. They will text me when they are up and we'll meet in the dining room for breakfast.

thursday

Jun. 26th, 2025 07:46 pm
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I'm really liking working this way - on multiple pictures at the same time. Not having to feel like I need to have something "done" each day.

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Here's a picture of Rainy with her ears up. They look big. They are rarely raised like this. She just woke up.

Went to Berdella's today for women's group and on the way home I stopped off at the Sugar Creek Care Center to see about volunteering there. It is only 1.6 miles away and I could actually walk there if I needed to. They have more opportunities to have interactions with patients as a volunteer than I am having at the hospital behavioral health unit right now - I only see the patients from afar most the time I'm there or I don't see them at all. Helping with bingo on Tuesday afternoons sounds like something I can do at the Care Center. I'm hoping I get a call about doing that. The lady in charge of volunteers remembered both mom and dad from them being in there getting over injuries. Some of the workers remembered brother John visiting patients there too so that was nice.

Time to take the dogs for a walk down back before it gets dark. I didn't want to do it earlier because of the heat and then we had a big thunderstorm and it was too wet.

Brisket

Jun. 26th, 2025 04:16 pm
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I've found a system to cook brisket that is not too complicated.  It is smoking in the outside cooker for a few hours then into the oven to finish.  The oven has a controllable temperature so I can ensure it is evenly finished off and not dried out.  It is kind of a chore to do it especially in this heat but the payoff is huge.  I end up with a lot of brisket that I slice and vacuum seal in half a dozen bags and freeze.  It freezes well and we can pull out a bag of it to cook with eggs or add bbq sauce to and make sandwiches or just finger food.

Big bonus.  Zoe has to take pills two or three times a day and is resisting the standard rolled into cheese slices.  I discoverd that if I chop up the brisket really finely and mix it with flour and peanut butter and a little beef broth I can make pill pockets that she loves.  It is not expensive, not too difficult and she loves it.

I'm off to buy a brisket tomorrow to cook this weekend. 

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Jun. 26th, 2025 11:55 am
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I just did some grocery shopping but I screwed up and bought raisins when I already had raisins, I just forgot I had them and didn't check before I went to the store. I'm going to go swimming this afternoon.

365 Questions 2025

Jun. 26th, 2025 01:12 pm
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22. What have you done in the last year that makes you proud? Survived.

23. What did you learn recently that changed the way you live? Nothing comes to mind.

24. What is your fondest memory from the past three years? My trip to Niagara Falls with S in November 2022.

25. What are the primary components of a happy life? Safe housing, enough food and other requirements for life, good friends and family.

26. How would the world be different if you were never born? My children and grandchildren wouldn't exist.

Mostly quiet day

Jun. 26th, 2025 10:51 am
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It's 85 and humid right now so I'm done outside (at 10:51).  I walked the dogs and worked on the chicken coop a bit.  I cut the metal panels for the coop roof, something I've been putting off for weeks.  It was a PIA but it is done and I'm down to half a dozen things needed to finish, none of them too hard.  I'll take pictures when it is completely done.  And get the chicks.

Today and tomorrow are rest days.  I'll cut the grass tomorrow morning and do some groceries today but that's it.  I was playing pickleball yesterday and tired out quickly.  I think I was still tired from working at the shelter on Tuesday.  So I decided that today and tomorrow would be recovery days with no real exercise and minimal physical projects.  Cutting the grass takes about half an hour so it hardly counts.  

I'm going to shower and go to the store and then just rest and watch Whitechapel.  

One of the perks of moving to SoFi is that they offer up to $300 once you start direct deposits.  I think I'll end up qualifying for the maximum $300 so I'll apply that to Google Store and between that and my phone trade in of $140 that just cleared, the phone is about $90.  It is a much better phone in ways I can't much describe.  The battery charge is obviously much better than its 3 year old predecessor.  It is also quicker and better at recognizing my face and finger print.  It is nearly an identical phone feature wise.  I can hardly find anything of significance that has changed.  But it was a good time to upgrade.  My trade in was maximized and my old phone will go to a good home and not be trash sitting in my drawer.

As long as I'm upgrading I decided not to wait for Microsoft to declare my PC unsafe, which will happen in October.  My now seven year old computer is still going fine but the Win 10 is done and the security of Win 11 requires hardware that I don't have.  I'd upgrade and stay in the MS family but for that.  Much as I hate to lose the PC I'm moving to a Chrome mini Asus.  It has a ton of outputs that will support local USB drives and my two monitors with ease.  And will sit under my main monitor or mount on it or something.  Not sure how I'm doing that but it will free up a lot of space.

The only thing I lose, the only thing I use MS for really, is the ability to play Halo.  I've got a one game collection that has a half dozen Halo versions in it that I've been playing for years.  I will not like losing that but will figure out something else.  Maybe save up for an Xbox.  

Right now, though, I'm going to have a sandwich and a shower.




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Jun. 26th, 2025 12:27 pm
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My eldest daughter turned 45 today. I really don't feel old enough to have a child that old.

It was marginally cooler this morning (2 degrees F/~1 degree C lower than yesterday) and I had slept well last night, so I went for a run just after 6:30 am. I ended up fairly sweaty but the run felt relatively easy. I wanted to run today because the forecast is for rain for the next couple of days and I don't like running in the rain, although I will walk with an umbrella if the rain isn't too heavy. When I got back I decided to cut the grass in the front yard (I had considered doing it yesterday but I couldn't be bothered). It only took me about 15 or 20 minutes but I was literally dripping with sweat before I finished. It still looks not great around the edges but the overall appearance is somewhat better than before I cut it. (I use a push mower.) I'm hoping not to have to do it for another month or so. The grass/weeds/etc grow really quickly in spring and early summer but then usually slow down by July.

My sorting task for today was looking through photos, specifically a shoebox full of photos I'd sent to S in the early 2000s before I started to use a digital camera and when we were still getting to know each other. It took me at least 15 minutes if not longer to work my way through them. I ended up keeping a few and just throwing most of them away, but looking at some of them took me instantly back to my life 20 years ago. Most of them were unlabelled (of course!) and either unidentifiable places or not especially significant to me at all. I've still got a box of my own old photos to look through, and I think that will be harder to do because many of those photos are from when my children were young.

Live Journal seems to be working okay for me now, but it has forced me into using the new editor and I don't particularly like it. I especially don't like the fact that it hides anything more than a couple of paragraphs behind a cut, although I suppose it doesn't really matter.

Heat Spell Breaks

Jun. 26th, 2025 07:31 am
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Heat spell finally broke.

Hal-lay-LOOL-ya.

I have lived through heat spells before, but I can't remember any as bad as this past three days. (That's probably due to my incredibly bad memory more than climate change.)

Since yesterday was supposed to be marginally cooler than the two preceeding days, I went over to the New Paltz community garden to water the seedlings I'd planted last week.

I was expecting to find the seedlings had all died. And maybe some did, but not all: Dried grass clippings turn out to be a very effective mulch.

Place was like the asylum grounds of Hell—completely deserted with a kind of pitiless stark white HD light. It was weird to be the only person present in that vast garden! Maybe I walked 50 yards total, and so much sweat poured off me, I looked as though I'd just come out of a shower.

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My stomach is still not 100%. I've been sleeping badly, and never more than five hours a night. I remind myself that it is these factors—and not the inherent Evil of the Universe—that are responsible for the pissy mood I'm in. And these factors are controllable. When DonkeyBody ([personal profile] smokingboot™) is back to optimal functioning & I can sleep eight hours, the Universe will once more go back to being a pleasant place filled with laughter & magic.

At least, that's what I am telling myself.

wednesday

Jun. 25th, 2025 08:39 pm
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I took this picture in the night last night during a sleepless spell. This is how I want to work for a while - just paint something kind of random on 3 or 4 different pages, let them dry and then paint a little more on them in spurts. Work in layers. Have fun with abstract doodle type art.

Didn't go to volunteer today. I've been feeling crappy with whatever this is that I have, plus Dave was using the truck today so I couldn't get to the hospital anyway. I spent a lot of the day resting. Dave went to Chloe and Mike's old house and helped Mike finish clearing stuff out. It is DONE now.

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Flower. I finished it while sitting at the picnic table down at the creek this evening.

So hot today. I was talking to Johnny this afternoon and it was 100F there in West Reading. High 80s here but it's so humid it's awful. Hm, I just looked up West Reading and that's where Taylor Swift was born. Ha.

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Jun. 25th, 2025 02:22 pm
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I'm annoyed with myself about the loaf of sourdough bread I made yesterday. I knew it was rising fairly quickly because of the hot weather (and I don't keep my house super cold - the thermostat is set at 78°F/25.5°C), so when I put it into the loaf pan I made a mental note to put it in the fridge as soon as it had risen to level with the top of the pan; I would then take it out this morning and bake it and be able to have fresh bread for sandwiches for lunch today. Unfortunately I completely forgot about it and only remembered when I went to the kitchen to get some dinner, when I found the bread already risen well above the top of the pan. I had to bake it immediately rather than putting it in the fridge overnight, and therefore missed out on my fresh bread sandwich today. If I'd put it in the fridge at that point, by morning it would have deflated again. With yeast bread you can rescue an over risen loaf by punching it down and letting it rise for a third time (or so I've read), but with sourdough that doesn't work because the bread deflates when it has "eaten" all the yeast and no amount of punching down is going to produce more yeast to be eaten.

I had yet another bad night last night and I'm feeling very tired today, not helped of course by yet another hot day. Last night I fell asleep reasonably quickly but I kept waking up about every half hour, and then around 11:30 pm my left arm started feeling uncomfortable and keeping me awake because I couldn't find a way to lie that was comfortable. Eventually I got up and read for a while, but I missed out on a couple of hours sleep. I would probably fall asleep if I lay down now, but I'm afraid of messing up my sleep tonight so I'm resisting temptation.

Up until 2023 I used to go out running very early in the mornings in summer in spite of the warm humid early morning weather, but last year other things got in the way and this year I feel totally unmotivated to run when it's so warm when I get up. I've been walking every morning, as I also did last year during the heatwave I lived through in Connecticut in July and August, but I'm hoping for some slightly cooler mornings so I can feel like running again.

For a few weeks I've been thinking about crocheting a throw/lap rug for donation, using flower granny squares. Looking online, there are scores if not hundreds of patterns for granny squares with flower or other designs, and just like with quilting, about the hardest part of a new project is settling on a design and colours. I made some experimental flower granny squares, and have settled on making identically patterned squares but in different colours. I ordered a package of 12 balls of yarn in 12 colours which arrived on Monday, and now I'm itching to get started, but while I was waiting for the yarn I started another pair of fingerless mitts, and I'm making myself finish those before I start on the throw. It only takes a day or two to knit a fingerless mitt, depending on how much time I spend watching shows, so I should have finished the pair fairly quickly.

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Jun. 25th, 2025 09:23 am
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Had some apple pie chai tea. Nothing going on today.
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I’m finally home for long enough to do some catching up here. Let’s fire up the wayback machine to March and the Women’s Storytelling Festival.


The 2025 Women’s Storytelling Festival was held March 20th through 23rd. Thursday the 20th was the virtual showcase, emceed by Bonnie Gardner, which I didn’t watch until a few days after the festival. First up in that showcase was Shani Womack, whose story had to do with the importance of community and interconnections, including members of her family. She was followed by Sarah Brady telling the story of Cassandra who had been given the gift of prophecy from Apollo but cursed not to be believed when she refused him. Janel Woodland focused on mother-daughter relationships as she, who had never wanted children, married a man with three children from a previous marriage. Her story involved a mall trip with her step-daughter and her mother and a funny prank. Sarah Beth Nelson brought us back to mythology with the legend of Medea. Finally, Karin Amano talked about difficulties with pregnancy and seeing an infertility specialist after losing a baby at 30 weeks.

The in-person show(s) started Friday night. Laura Packer started things off with a story about telling at a venue with an unusual dress code. She was followed by Toby Ishii Anderson with a story about her family’s experience with a Japanese internment camp. Andrea Kamens was next with a Chassidic story about how a rebbetzin brought light to a man who had been called "good-for-nothing." Then, Ingrid Nixon told her version of Hansel and Gretel, followed by a personal story about the secret to being a perfect daughter. Linda Gorham had a very funny story about the chocolate-loving Behr (not bear!) family. Jessica Piscitelli Robinson’s story was about telling at the Exchange Place at the National Storytelling Festival. Laura Deal closed the evening with a story about family health struggles. She also threw in a little bit of laughing yoga. All of this was was ably emceed by Kristin Pedemonti.

Saturday started off with a showcase featuring Carol Moore and Ingrid Nixon, with emcee Jeanna Lee. Carol talked about four women who influenced her - her mother, her boxing coach,her life coach,and her (paternal) grandmother. Ingrid started with a story about wanting to be Daniel Boone as a child, including having a buckskin jacket. Next she told the Grimm story about Godmother Death, which is one of my personal favorites. Then she told about being on a Russian icebreaker in the Arctic and seeing a polar bear, which she combined with an Inuit story about an old woman who adopts a polar bear cub as her son. She finished with a short piece about shopping for a gift for her mother in a five and dime.

The first Saturday afternoon showcase, emceed by Jenn White, started with Laura Deal, who told two stories - one about her ability to find things in her childhood home, including a pet turtle with an affection for an old pump organ - and one about a missing wedding ring. Aimee Snow had a story about her dream role in a show, playing opposite a guy she had a crush on. Laura Packer told a lovely and complex story involving her recurring characters, Crazy Jane and Red-Haired Annie. Then came Andrea Kamens with a story about her aunts, with a fairy tale twist. Finally, Sarah Snyder told a story about her mother’s death.

By the way, I was originally supposed to be in that session, but things were behind schedule so Jessica asked me to start off the next session instead, which was emceed by Fairfax mayor Catherine Read. I told my story “Berel the Baker,” which blends a Chelm story with a story about taking my mother to Poland to see the towns her parents were from. Next up was Linda Gorham, with a story about the music she grew up with and her struggles with singing in public, which led into a version of Rumpelstiltskin using Beatles songs. Toby Ishii Anderson continued with two stories about water - one about fly fishing and one about a tsunami. Ingrid Nixon finished off the session with a story about moving from Alaska to a small town in Washington state and having to cope with having to mow a lawn.

Saturday night’s session was emceed by Lauren Stephens. It started with Carol Moore whose story had to do with learning about menopause. Next up was Andrea Kamens with a twist on Little Red Riding Hood, from the perspective of the wolf. She was followed by Swapna Deshpande with a story about getting a pet snail to alleviate her melancholy as an empty nester. Then came Jennifer Hillery with a story about dealing with her father’s health issues. She was followed by Amanda Lawrence with a story about her son’s premature birth.

I was very tired at that point so I went home. I watched the end of the Saturday night show on-line a couple of weeks later. Laura Packer had a short and relatable piece about what she wanted to do when she grew up, which included paleontologist, a fireman, and the President. Jessica Robinson closed out the evening with an original folktale about gender roles.

Sunday’s program started with the story swap, where I fulfilled my traditional role as M.C. (which, in case you didn’t know, stands for “Miriam of Ceremonies.”) We had a wide mix of stories and I didn’t have to drag anyone off the stage, which is pretty much how I count success on this.

After the lunch break, Sherry Grimes emceed a showcase which started with Laura Packer telling a complex story about her aunt and Baba Yaga and encounters in the woods. She was followed by Ingrid Nixon with a story about a 13 year old girl who was rescued from a shipwreck in the Torres Strait and had to choose which life to live several years later. Linda Gorham closed out that session with a story about her grandparents and all the plastic in their house, with details related to her father’s deployment to Vietnam. She also told a short poem about waiting at red lights.

The finale showcase of the festival was emceed by Jamie McElhatton. First up was Linda Gorham with the Greek myth of Atalanta, which she likes to tell to middle school children. She finished off with a folk tale from Eastern Africa about a king who struggled to make a happy marriage. Then came Andrea Kamens with a story about a princess who refused to become queen until she was cured of being lame in one leg. Tobey Ishii Anderson was next with a story about making chains out of gum wrappers - and what happened to the chewed up gum. Then came Jessica Robinson, with a political metaphor about what happens when people don’t listen to the storytellers in their midst. Carol Moore’s story had to do with a training in the corporate world, which leads her to learning about sign language interpreting and the deaf community. Ingrid Nixon was the final teller for the festival, with a story about her father’s voice on a cassette tape.

I couldn’t really capture what the festival was like in person. Just trust me that there was a mix of traditional and modern, every possible mood, told by a wide range of women. And the best part of all is that we’re doing it again next year. We’d love to see you in March 2026 in Fairfax, Virginia. Or on-line if you can’t make it in person.

Still having a grand time but

Jun. 25th, 2025 08:04 am
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no time to post. I am collecting notes and will catch up. promise.

Gaskets

Jun. 25th, 2025 08:46 am
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I would have voted for Cuomo.

Cuomo is an old-school Democrat and a loathsome human being by all accounts, but Cuomo is also an able administrator—and a city the size of NYC needs able administration. Weren't DiBlasio's two terms in office enough?

But hey! Maybe I would have been wrong.

Cuomo did kill a lot of old people who would have voted for him because they remember his father.

Plus, Zohran Mamdani is incredibly appealing, and I'd like to ride city buses for free-eee-eeee! Galvanizing 50,000 volunteer canvassers—Cuomo had to pay his—is no mean feat. Mamdani is like a male AOC or a younger, mega-photogenic Bernie Sanders. Mississippi Marsala is a lovely little movie. And I think it may be true that Mamdani is Trump's worst nightmare.

So, yeah: Zohran Mamdani.



The oil change yesterday went on forever, because I asked them to check the brakes and the suspension. The Prius is 14 years old & runs like a dream, but the roads in Ulster County are like one long Tourney of Potholes. If I don't rejuvenate my car's suspension system every year, one day it's gonna go over a bump and the wheels are gonna fly off.

Plus my mechanic stripped a gasket as he was finishing up, so all the new oil he'd just put into the Prius spilled all over the garage floor.

Even though I knew exactly what was happening—gasket! not a biggie—I could feel myself edging into a massive panic attack. I wanted to start sobbing. Like so many women of my age, I have Fear of the Big Box—basically because I wasn't taught about tools & engines & machinery growing up. Things with engines operate through a kind of magic that I am ignorant about! I was at the mercy of these alien priests in their grease-stained denim jumpsuits! All I could do was tremble in awe and fear—

Thankfully, I managed to talk myself out of the panic attack—because really, who wants to see an elderly lady get hysterics?

The verdict on the car: Back wheels need new shocks; car needs four new tires.

Cost will be about a grand.

Of course, I'd far rather spend $1,000 on hazelnut truffles and subscriptions to generative AI video services, but I must have a safe vehicle—my own driving abilities are wildcard factor enough on the roads.
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My mechanic was horribly apologetic about the gasket when he brought the car out to me. He was an elderly gentleman with a very thick accent. I imagined him as a refugee from one of those countries in Africa beseiged by a gruesome civil war, Sierra Leone or Uganda or someplace.

"You know, stuff happens," I assured him. "You did a great job. Thank you so much!"

And I wrote him a five-star review, singling him out by the name embroidered over the breast pocket of his grease-stained denim jumpsuit.

Because I didn't want him to get fired over a gasket.
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